Steps to Success While Your Family Member is Inside

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1.  Seek support - from family members, churches, support groups, anyone!  Network with those among you who are in the same situation.

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2.  Be real about visiting - Visiting costs time, money, childcare, emotions and patience.  Make sure you are ready for the visit.

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3.  When you visit, be prepared.  Make sure you are an approved visitor, know the visiting hours,a nd procedures.  Above all, be prepared emotionally.

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4.  Budget your money.  If you are accepting collect calls, budget accordingly.  Also plan ahead for visiting costs such as accommodations, gas, childcare, etc.

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5.  Find creative ways to save money.

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6.  Find out what resources are available to you.

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7.  Stay connected - visiting is only one way to stay connected.  Phone calls and letters are also beneficial.

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8.  Be honest with your kids.

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9.  Stay positive.

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10.  Stay focused.